THE SETUP

Many pro-lifers consider abortion to be abhorrent yet are fully prepared to make allowances for special circumstances such as rape, incest or medical emergencies. Is it possible to view girlfriend battery through this special circumstance lenses too? Is it a necessary tool of control? When is it ok to hit your girl? Can hitting your girl ever be justified? Or is it always a complete no-no?

THE FORMATION

Biodun

Biodun

Tony

Jumoke

Jumoke

Hauwa

Hauwa

Spencer

Spencer

Eniola

Eniola

BIODUN

Has never been, and will never be. #EndOf.

TONY

It is never okay to hit your girl. I don’t know why one would want to control his partner and therefore think the means to achieve this is by hitting said partner. Big NO!!!
Let me even take it one step further by saying that regardless of gender, you shouldn’t hit your partner because as much it is easy to say there is no reason to hit your partner, actions have consequences. And you cannot complain when your action causes a reaction.

JUMOKE

It is never okay to hit your spouse. Boy or girl. Never.

HAUWA

Seriously? It’s NEVER okay to hit your girl just like it’s never okay to slap your man. Never ever. It is not a tool of control. I can probably give a pass if she thinks herself a Hulk Hogan and starts raining her man slaps insisting and pushing for a fight, and he hits her back. In that instance, she asked for it.

Even though he could have walked away, you can’t blame a man for losing his temper in such a situation. Why couldn’t she control her temper and hands?

SPENCER

When she hits you.

No kidding. I don’t dish out pain and I hate when it is done to anyone so don’t expect me to just take a backseat while I’m taking a beating. Ideally, nobody – male or female – should put their hands on anyone under any condition but if I’m attacked, expect me to defend myself.

But if we’re dealing strictly with the initial aggression of men here, then NO. It’s not okay under whatsoever circumstances to hit your girl. I’ll lay hands on my best friend if he does it sef.

ENIOLA

It’s never OK to hit anyone. We are not animals. Even guys don’t hit each other anymore (where I come from), we just shout, say shit and walkaway. So it can never be OK to hit a girl expect it’s in za ozer room if you know what I mean. 😊😊😊😊

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